What should I do if a girl doesn’t reply me?
2 Jan '16

Arun Kumar

I'm a blogger who loves to write blogs on love, psychology and leadership. My passion is to share things around the world.


What should I do if a girl doesn’t reply me?

Having living in the world of social media with various types of messaging or chatting apps, most of the relationships revolve around texting or chatting. Some sensitive people even really take smiley’s seriously. Every single word of texting is an emotion while chatting. Some guys heart will be beating faster or broken if they didn’t get any reply from the girl whom he really cares a lot.

The following are some best suggestions to implement when a girl doesn’t reply you back:

Do Nothing:

You don’t and shouldn’t have to be beg others to pay attention to you or give you the respect you deserve. If someone doesn’t reply, give them one more chance in case the message got lost or there was some misunderstanding, then leave them alone. In the worst case scenario you could be accused of being a stalker, in the best case, you look like a fool. There are many girls/woman on the planet. Find one who adores YOU.

Let her go:

Let her go….she doesn’t care…may not hate you but doesn’t care which is similar.

I haven’t heard from a guy I worked for and thought was a friend in ages and will not attempt again because its pointless. He has his life… I do too and never shall our paths cross again.

You can’t make someone see the benefit in maintaining a relationship with you if they don’t want to.  In the words of the band FUN…, “Carry On”.

Presence of mind:

Try to use your presence of mind and see, is there any wrong thing she were or she pick up or something wrong is going to be happened take your point. Try to start verbal conversation but conversation should be honest and meaningful by never getting more exited be general.

Reply her gift of your absence.
People who don’t acknowledge your presence are not worth it. Move on. It is a planet full of girls and it is so crowded that we are finding another habitat in the universe. So, why to stick on someone not valuing you instead go and explore your opportunity with the rest of the population.

Chase your dreams:

Don’t make your life revolve around one single girl. This may sound rude but if you are caring about some girl more than yourself then you are never going to get her and you will probably end up hurting yourself.
It’s better not to chase love and believe that what is meant to happen will happen eventually.

Now the best thing you can do is to distance yourself from her. If she come back to you, That’s Great! But don’t mess it up or show neediness and make her ignore you again. I would also suggest you to focus more on improving yourself. If you have interesting hobbies like Horse riding, Adventure sports etc. Try focusing more on that. Enjoy your life that way rather than chasing after a girl. And who knows what future has in store, you may just find that special someone.

                     Chase your dreams not people

Put yourself in her shoes:

Understand her situation. Try to understand why she is behaving like this. Why would you want to say anything to her? If she doesn’t want to reply, it’s her choice; she has the right. Right?
Yep, it’s hard to digest ignorance from someone we like but – believe me – it happens with everyone.
You too would have deliberately avoided someone you didn’t like. Isn’t it? Of course you had reasons. And that was different 😉
So you have two choices like everyone – either you let it go… Life is too big to be run out of people who would like you…. Or keep thinking about her, bothering her and turn into a sadist.

And if it makes you feel any better – even that girl would have faced it or will face the same … Not because she did it you but because that is life 😉

Having said that, there are many more reasons why she may ignore you. You are the right person to decide because you should know her better than anybody. So, it’s your call!!!

About Arun Kumar

I'm a blogger who loves to write blogs on love, psychology and leadership. My passion is to share things around the world.

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